Friday, May 18, 2012

Same Sex Marriages

Same sex marriage is an extremely sensitive subject that has manoeuvred back and forth within political discussions and debates. There are for’s and against points that can both be argued and then it merely comes down to the individuals opinion on sexuality, politics, religion, marriage, family and love. These can all be valid points of discussion when accessing the legalisation of same sex marriages. I personally can see both sides of this debate and I certainly don’t have a problem with the way anyone wants to live their life and if that being heterosexual or homosexual...

As of May 10, 2012 – 8 states in the US legalised same sex marriage, Massachusetts to be the first and it is also permissible in 10 other countries including The Netherlands, South Africa, Argentina, Belgium, Canada, Spain, Norway, Sweden, Iceland and Portugal.

Looking at Barack Obama’s recent public announcement in favour of same sex marriage nearing pre election, this decision can be debateable even though times are changing and equal rights are evolving in many different social aspects. I cannot see this as a political move as there are many US citizens that are against same sex marriages all together, that already don’t back Obama’s Democratic political party. There are currently conservative groups that follow Obama but oppose same sex marriages, so now where does that leave their view on Obama and his decision to move forward with legalising same sex marriages in The United States? This defined in quote from the Washington (AFP) “He has always had trouble with white, blue collar, socially conservative swing voters and Wednesday’s move will hardly help.’’

But in politics who can you really believe is being sincere and honest in any situation?

I can definitely see this happening closer to election time in Australia as there are certain leaders pushing for it and others against it. We also tend to follow trends from The US politically, as there is a strong relationship between the two countries. Same sex marriage has been a debate in Australia and all over the world, it is only inevitable that the issue is faced again in parliament and during election squabbles between Labour and Liberal parties.

My views on the legalisation of same sex marriage are not entirely clear but can be expressed through two very important key words: ‘marriage’ and ‘union’.
Marriage: the formal union of man and woman, typically as recognised by law, by which they become husband and wife.
Union: the action of joining together or the fact of being joined together, especially in a political context.

I believe the word marriage originates from religion and as they believe the word homosexuality is a sin, looking at the above definition, it is then weakened and the institution of marriage is lost if same sexes are to unite. Same sex marriages could then confuse and develop issues with the legality of marriage and family values tipped upside down. Not that everybody does get married under a religious ceremony but do the history and definition of marriage then need to be reassessed and changed for a minority of people wanting to unite in same sex marriages? Gender roles will also be changed and the subject of pro creating (naturally) is not possible in any way.

There are also reasons why allowing the union between the same sexes is beneficial and positive, such as that you cannot deny anyone of their religious freedom and homosexuality is highly recognised and accepted in society today.  Research has also shown that there are an increased number of adoptions available for same sex couples and it is a form of individual discrimination to not allow gay marriage.

Personally I think there should be such a thing as same sex union between two people recognised by law and the word marriage be left out as marriage is defined by the union of a man and woman initiated from religion and legalised this way thousands of years ago. I could be named a fence sitter on this situation and will need to do further research on the positive and negative reasons towards same sex marriages but it doesn’t affect me personally for the same sexes to be together and make it accepted legally and to the world.  But I do believe that the word marriage is the bonding of woman and man and same sex marriages should be legalised under a union in some way possible.

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